What to do About Storytelling

Albert Einstein was quoted as once saying, "Imagination is more important than knowledge." He's right; Imagination does play an important role in life. But, for parents who have an imaginative and storytelling child, frustration often overshadows imagination. 

The Difference Between Lying and Storytelling

Many parents wonder if there is a difference between lying and storytelling. Technically, neither is honest; the major difference is in the intent. Children who are engaged in lying are usually doing so purposely to cover up something or avoid a negative consequence. Children who are storytelling are usually just expressing their imagination. If you have a child who is a storyteller and you want to set the story straight, consider these tips:

• Discuss storytelling with your child, as well as, the difference between reality and make believe.
• Discuss what it means to engage in inappropriate storytelling. Set up a behavior chart to make sure that storytelling happens at appropriate times and reward your child for following the guidelines.
• Find a way for your child to continue to use her imagination. Encouraging your child's imagination is important, but so is ensuring that it is expressed at appropriate times. You may want to encourage your child to get involved in writing, theater, or acceptable forms of make believe where she can let her imagination run wild.
• Set a good example for your child. Many parents are also storytellers; kids watch and repeat the behavior.

Healthy Behavior Habits

Imaginative play is completely normal and healthy. It is important to allow your child creative outlets while keeping story telling from turning into lying or other avoidance behavior. The last thing you want to do is squash your child's storytelling imagination. After all, someday her storytelling ability may lead to a lucrative and satisfying career.